i've got a confession to make



i think i m starting to get a little annoyed with certain ppl and what they do...



time again... i asked myself again and again what can explain their actions or the way they do things...

i consistently pray God to answer the rationale behind the actions...



i understand some of them are trying...

well others are not...not the least trying



communication...

sensitivity...



everyone out there

just ask yrself if your way of communication, yr way of speech,

does it effectively communicates yr message across to ppl u wan to inform

or does it slowly build barricades between u and them?

worse still... unknowingly

and i dun think it's just refering to ppl who communicates with decidels(i.e. loud shouts) or storms(i.e. bad temper)

i believe it even happens to ppl who communicates with smiles... u build up yr barricade of smiles... get my drift?



guess it's a thin line between "smiley" fakeness and genuine concern

or sometimes out of genuine concern... we might even fake that smile



i m learning this whole issue on communication too...

maybe to put it simply....

do u consider other's ppls' shoes before opening yr mouth?

or do we sometimes just try to fit our size 9 foot into a size 5 shoe?



food for thought



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i've got nothing much to say liao...

maybe this is something all of us have to learn...

and something that we've to help each other along the way...



this is something that i hope to learn from this 40 day fast...